ok, what the he ll happened last night? was it a ghost?
ok, this isnt the first time this has happend. ill tell you about the first time first.
so a few months ago [back in my old house in australia] i was lying in bed and mind you im not at all a heavy sleeper. i normally always woke up when someone was moving around outside my bedroom door and i could always feel it when people were walking down the hallway too. but anyway, i felt someone/thing moving around in my room one night and woke up straight away. i had been lying on my back and only my head wasnt under the covers. i was scared shi*less because it felt like something was sitting on top of me or holding me down. i couldnt open my eyes or anything. i had no idea what the time was but eventually i was able to move again and covered my head under the covers ASAP. then i screamed for help and my mom came running in. she asked what was wrong and i told her. then she told me i was just dreaming but i know i hadnt been.
AND THEN LAST NIGHT [im now living in sweden btw] i was asleep and woke up again. but i hadnt felt anyone/thing in my room. i definatley knew i wasnt sleeping because i could hear my dad snoring like always in the next room. this time it felt like someone/thing was trying to pull my blankets off of me [but failed] even though i couldnt move again. it felt like i was being bashed sort of. i screamed for my dad so loud but [once again] he didnt wake up to it because he never wakes up to anything after he starts snoring. i cried so bad after coz i was soo scared. after it stopped i snuck my head out from under the covers but i didnt see anything i guess i finally fell back asleep coz i woke back up again about three hours ago.
anyone know what it could have been? and dont tell me all this stuff like ghosts cant touch you or ghost arent angry. coz even though it might not have been a ghost or something [not saying that it was] how do you know ghost arent angry? can you talk to them? i think not haha.
and btw, has this happend to anyone else?
and to picalo jack.. no, i dont believe in god .. or at least not your god. and i dont know what incubus is. so i dont think ill be asking jesus for help =)
Long Distance Relationship (Read Details)?
I was with this guy for about 3 months and we tottaly clicked. I moved in with him, and we fell in love. He was my first love and I want him to be my only. However last week something unexpected happened and I have to go back to school for 3 years half across the country. We have been apart almost a week and I cry everyday. We talk on IM pretty often, but it’s not the same. Like we dont really connect through IM. Also, whats also worrying me is that throughout these next years, i’m scared he’ll fade away or grow out of me. He does not seem to be as hurt by this long distance thing as I do and that worrys me. Today on IM chat I mentioned that we should make a schedule to talk to each other so it wont be so hectic us trying to get in contact and he said " No schedule, let’s just be regular friends". What does this mean? He always says he loves me and I love him so much it hurts. I doubt we’ll be able to see each other over these next three years. He does not seem to want to put as much effort into this as I do. Like he said that he cant be my life and that I need to make friends and get involved with stuff here. What does this sound like to you? Am I over-reacting. I just love him so much and cant lose him. He said I wont lose him, but I am just so scared we will fade away or he’ll grow out of me. If that happens i’ll probably crumble and die. What should I do?
He also mentioned that he can’t be on IM everyday. This scares me. I cant lose him.
This is the email I sent last night to him. He read it while we were on IM and all he said was "awwww"
i miss you so much.
god, i just cant stop crying.
i miss being with you.
i miss being in your arms, i miss us cuddling at night, i miss how you say "eyespooge", i miss how cute you look in a baggy hoodie and shorts, i miss how you say "nahh yo", i miss how when i used to make a kiss face you would say "awhhh" and make the cutest face ever, i miss how you smell like adidas body spray everytime you get out of the shower, i miss that little birthmark on your right cheek, i miss interrupting you play your guitar by sitting on your lap, i miss how serious your face would get while you were playing grand theft auto, i miss running my fingers through your hair, i miss your lectures about how i need to stop idolizing people, i miss how we would try to eat healthy but always would end up eating some kind of junk-food, i miss how concerned you would get when i would go outside with only one jacket, i miss your perfect smile, i miss playing with your eyebrow ring while we laid down, i miss how my stomach would feel everytime i hugged and kiss you, i miss how safe i felt when i cuddled up against your chest at night, i miss how instead of saying really or alot you say "mad", i miss how that night when your mom was sleeping and we were playing and giggling your stomach growled really loud and you were like "damn", i miss how you use to kiss my stomach, i miss how you would comfort me when i would cry, i miss how sometimes at night you would snore really loud and i would punch your arm and you’d stop, i miss how freaked out you got when you saw that roach in the kitchen, i miss how everytime you had to take a **** you would ask me to play music, i miss how when we would argue about something you would look it up on the computer, i miss the confidence that you have in yourself, i miss that one night you were playing your guitar and started singing and how that made me want to make out with you, i miss making fun of your balls, i miss how we would never finish a movie……..
i miss you.
listen, whether you believe it or not, i’m convinced that we are meant for each other.
i dont think it’s a coincidence that when i posted that craigslist ad, out of all the people, you responded.
i dont think it’s a coincidence that i fell hopelessly in love with you.
i am going to finish high school as fast as i can, get a student loan, move back to philly with you, and attend a makeup academy to get my artist license, if thats ok with you.
promise me something, DONT settle down with anybody between now and when i get out of HS.
the MOST i’ll be gone is 3 years, probably less.
because nobody else deserves you but me, mmk?
let’s get on stickam or IM tommorow night, or should i say tonight since it’s already 1:AM
i love you soo soo much.
How do I stop snoring?
I’m a 12 year old girl and I snore a lot. I want to stop because it’s embarrassing when I go to sleepovers with my friends. They always laugh at me and I don’t want to be the laughing stock of the morning! Can you please give me some tips on how to stop snoring!
Thanks!
P.S. I don’t want to take any kind of surgery!
Hair Removal, Preferably Girls Only!?
So my boyfriend keeps tellin me I remind him of a man and that I’m too hairy for him to stay attracted to and that if I don’t do something about it he’s gonna leave me and login to my myspace and tell everyone about how hairy I am and sometimes if I snore at night he will pull my hair and tell me to stop being such a sasquatch.
ANYWAYS I was just wondering if anyone had any good suggestions for do it yourself hair removal you know like herbal waxin and stuff like that? Also it would help if you have any testimonials! Thanks!
Sorry! The hair is mainly on my thighs and there is a little bit on my back and a small amount on my jawline.
ughh can u give me some advice?
ok well my friend snores so loud and i cant sleep wen i spend da nite a her house or if she spends the nite at my house but every weekend she asks if she can stay da nite and i dont want to cuz i can never sleep from her snorein but she wont stop bugging me every weekend! any advice of how i can go 2 her plc and sleep?
He hid his smoking and drinking from me – but stopped calling after he fell in love – why?
He’s a recovering alcoholic. Why did he hide the fact that he smoked from me? Why he not want to call me anymore after deciding he doesn’t want to hide it anymore. I never mentioned anything negative about smokers. His behavior is so confusing to me. For instance: we fall asleep (his place or mine), and when he wakes up, the first thing he says is "Was I snoring?" – claiming he doesn’t want to keep me up. I tell him that I don’t care if he snores – I didn’t know how to get it across to him that he doesn’t have to be that way around me and that I won’t think any less of him. Anyways I’m rambling – sorry. Just really confused…
Yes. He told me that he should have been honest with me. I scared him bc he was ready to tell me he loved me. But obviously isn’t ready for anything serious if he couldn’t tell me the truth up front.
I met the man of my dreams but it turns out he isnt? Dealbreaker or not?
Pros:
I loved him since third grade, we went to the same high school together, and I haven’t seen him in two years in college until one day, I saw him in my gym (I know of all odds) and I told him how gorgeous he still looked and finally for years decided to come forward and ask him out. I found out he goes to an Ivy League (Duke) and that he wants to study neurology which is awesome if I’ll ever have a future with him. Last week, he invited me over to his house and I can stay in his house with him feeding me and living with him and it’s great. He always showed that he loved me and never cheated and he’s the guy I always expected.
Cons:
Ok, since last week I moved in, he just doesn’t seem to act like a normal guy, I mean I live in the same room with him and every night he makes out with me and even went as far as taking off my clothes and his clothes until we were on our underwear and he just stopped there. He kept making out and then he just stopped and started to lie down snuggling me until I heard him snoring (LOL!). It was hot and all but I told him that why would he stopped and he said that this was satisfying enough for him and was disappoitned I wasn’t. Well, here’s the problem, I love him and all but all couples need a sex life ( I mean really we’re not getting younger and we’re in college! He’s 21 and I’m 20). He doesn’t seem to listen to me and I’m contemplating moving out but not dumping him, is that a good idea or what should I do?
I really like him but he doesn't get horny at all! Can this be a good dealbreaker?
Pros:
I loved him since third grade, we went to the same high school together, and I haven’t seen him in two years in college until one day, I saw him in my gym (I know of all odds) and I told him how gorgeous he still looked and finally for years decided to come forward and ask him out. I found out he goes to an Ivy League (Duke) and that he wants to study neurology which is awesome if I’ll ever have a future with him. Last week, he invited me over to his house and I can stay in his house with him feeding me and living with him and it’s great. He always showed that he loved me and never cheated and he’s the guy I always expected.
Cons:
Ok, since last week I moved in, he just doesn’t seem to act like a normal guy, I mean I live in the same room with him and every night he makes out with me and even went as far as taking off my clothes and his clothes until we were on our underwear and he just stopped there. He kept making out and then he just stopped and started to lie down snuggling me until I heard him snoring (LOL!). It was hot and all but I told him that why would he stopped and he said that this was satisfying enough for him and was disappoitned I wasn’t. Well, here’s the problem, I love him and all but all couples need a sex life ( I mean really we’re not getting younger and we’re in college! He’s 21 and I’m 20). He doesn’t seem to listen to me and I’m contemplating moving out but not dumping him, is that a good idea or what should I do?
My bf doesn't get horny at all? Is this a good excuse for a deal breaker?
Pros:
I loved him since third grade, we went to the same high school together, and I haven’t seen him in two years in college until one day, I saw him in my gym (I know of all odds) and I told him how gorgeous he still looked and finally for years decided to come forward and ask him out. I found out he goes to an Ivy League (Duke) and that he wants to study neurology which is awesome if I’ll ever have a future with him. Last week, he invited me over to his house and I can stay in his house with him feeding me and living with him and it’s great. He always showed that he loved me and never cheated and he’s the guy I always expected.
Cons:
Ok, since last week I moved in, he just doesn’t seem to act like a normal guy, I mean I live in the same room with him and every night he makes out with me and even went as far as taking off my clothes and his clothes until we were on our underwear and he just stopped there. He kept making out and then he just stopped and started to lie down snuggling me until I heard him snoring (LOL!). It was hot and all but I told him that why would he stopped and he said that this was satisfying enough for him and was disappoitned I wasn’t. Well, here’s the problem, I love him and all but all couples need a sex life ( I mean really we’re not getting younger and we’re in college! He’s 21 and I’m 20). He doesn’t seem to listen to me and I’m contemplating moving out but not dumping him, is that a good idea or what should I do?
I met the man of my dreams but now it turns out he isn't? Dealbreaker or not?
Pros:
I loved him since third grade, we went to the same high school together, and I haven’t seen him in two years in college until one day, I saw him in my gym (I know of all odds) and I told him how gorgeous he still looked and finally for years decided to come forward and ask him out. I found out he goes to an Ivy League (Duke) and that he wants to study neurology which is awesome if I’ll ever have a future with him. Last week, he invited me over to his house and I can stay in his house with him feeding me and living with him and it’s great. He always showed that he loved me and never cheated and he’s the guy I always expected.
Cons:
Ok, since last week I moved in, he just doesn’t seem to act like a normal guy, I mean I live in the same room with him and every night he makes out with me and even went as far as taking off my clothes and his clothes until we were on our underwear and he just stopped there. He kept making out and then he just stopped and started to lie down snuggling me until I heard him snoring (LOL!). It was hot and all but I told him that why would he stopped and he said that this was satisfying enough for him and was disappoitned I wasn’t. Well, here’s the problem, I love him and all but all couples need a sex life ( I mean really we’re not getting younger and we’re in college! He’s 21 and I’m 20). He doesn’t seem to listen to me and I’m contemplating moving out but not dumping him, is that a good idea or what should I do?
